“I used to sleep around.”
Loves middle-of-the-night sex with her husband.
Prefers to be on top.
Never travels without her Pocket Rocket vibrator.
Sleeps in Superman underwear.
“I used to worry that I wasn’t sexy or desirable enough; as a result, I constantly sought attention and approval from men. I cheated on every one of my boyfriends. Fortunately I grew up and learned to love myself, and that made it possible for me to fall in love with my husband, Doug—the first guy who saw through my sexpot act. He encourages me to be myself, in and out of bed, and seems to take so much pleasure from my pleasure that I now have real sexual confidence.”
Kiki, 29, life coach, single and dating
“I’m gay, but nobody ever thinks.”
Always makes the first move with women she likes.
Uses text messaging as foreplay in public places.
Has never had a drunken hookup—she’s a teetotaler.
Has had sex in a taxi and on a Ferris wheel.
“The first time I had sex with a guy, I was completely unimpressed. I thought, is this what everyone is hyping up? But since that’s true about a lot of women’s first experiences, I wasn’t convinced I might be gay. That didn’t happen until I fell for my best friend when I was 17.I love that I can challenge people’s assumptions about what being a lesbian is. Because if I’m gay, then their coworker or the person next to them at the gym or their friend could be gay too.”
Chiara, 28, online writer, in a one-year relationship
“I’m a reformed prude.”
Has been known to put on her old cheerleader outfitto spice things up in the bedroom.
Is obsessive about maintaining her Brazilian wax.
Reads steamy stories to her boyfriend.
Is attracted to type A personalities.
“Growing up I was taught that men only want to marry good girls, so I was quick to say eeew! to anything sex-related. Then I signed up for a class on writing erotica, which really opened my mind. At first, my boyfriend was embarrassed to hear my stories. But he came around! Couples that last are the ones who can explore things within their relationship, so there’s no need to go looking for them elsewhere.”
Carrie, 27, graphic designer, in a six-year relationship
“My boyfriend and I have an open relationship.”
Broke the futon the first time she slept with her boyfriend.
Fantasizes about Matthew McConaughey.
Has never believed in monogamy.
Once kicked a guy out of bed for not having a condom.
“When I first brought up the possibility of an open relationship with my boyfriend, he was super against the idea. But eventually he decided that as long as we were discreet, honest and respectful, there was no reason not to give it a try. Five years later, it’s still working out great. I tend to use online personals and have longer side relationships; he meets people through friends or out at bars and has more short-term flings. Being allowed these exploits actually makes us more dedicated to each other.”
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