Playing Read My Heart Games

Sometimes, you ask yourself certain questions. These are the questions that you don’t really ask yourself but they simply peeps out from some corner of your mind. Some times, you really look for an answer but sometimes you prefer them to be kept unanswered and uncertain.

Do I sound vague? Well, I guess all of us have experienced this. Can you deny that you feel happy when a guy keeps talking to you more than anyone else in the group? Again his repeated glances in the midst of conversations is even more fascinating.

You simply blush to think about it. Of course it is nice to think about the fact that someone is showing interest towards you. And the fact that you are unsure about the whole thing is even more titillating.

But the problem arises when you too start liking this guy and want to be sure whether he actually likes you and is really trying to convey something different through the gestures. You often wonder whether he was flirting just for the sake of it or whether he really wanted to convey some implied messages.

Well, there are some rules that apply to flirting. These are the ways to find out whether a guy is really interested. Most women feel at a loss when they try to figure out whether a guy really likes her or not. One of the most common mistakes made by women is that they often assume that a guy is interested when he is checking them out.

The fact remains that as long as he checks you out from a distance, he is just considering you for a date. One he makes his choice, he would definitely approach you and introduce himself. Now once he introduces himself you would be able to get more obvious signs that you look for.

There are certain facts that would be revealed by his body language. Most men try to explore your face while conversing and his eyes would rotate round your face and rest back at your eyes. Moreover a guy repeatedly looks at he lips of the woman he likes.

If you find that his eyes gets softer while he stares at you in the middle of conversation and simultaneously his voice too becomes mild, you are done with it. It simply means that the guy has fallen for you.

However the sign languages really differ from one individual to another. For instance a smart guy would actually take the initiative of introducing himself whereas a shy guy would check you out from a distance and would not even look up when you go nearby.

But he may just accidentally bump before you at different places. If you are in a movie hall, he may find excuses to site beside you. Whenever you are traveling in a group, you always find him there. A shy guy may ask one of your friends about you and say that “actually it is for one of my friends”.

You would get a more evident sign by the behavior of his friends. If a guy is really interested, his friends would tease you regarding him and notice you more frequently. This makes you feel embarrassed but happy at the same time.

However the most common indicator till date is eye contact. A shy guy would watch you from a distance. But the moment you stare back, he would look away. And it becomes a real difficult task to make such a guy propose you.

For making a shy guy propose you, it is necessary for you to befriend him and that would make him feel comfortable to open his heart. The indicators stated above would suggest you whether to proceed with a guy or not.

However, the fact lies, that when you have to look for such indicators in a man, it may be so that you are actually trying to satisfy yourself and you want to believe that he is actually interested.

That means it is not the guy but you who is interested. But when a guy is actually interested, you need not look for such signals, they would just get reflected in his body language. So, what is the point in waiting? Just get hold of the right signal, and reply them back. And you are done with it!

Jessica Parker writes on friendships that are broken, relationships that are estranged, religions that are extinct. She explores long lost aspects of life and wishes to express them. she finds, 123Greetings.com to be a nice way of expressing her long cherished thoughts.