Tokyo Playgirls Buy Geisha Guys For $50,000 A Pop

At first glance, the man and woman at the nightclub look like any other couple on a date. He flirts and pours champagne. She looks at him and laughs.

This isn’t a date, though. It’s business.

The woman, a successful executive, has joined a growing number of professional women in Japan are forking out $1,000 to $50,000 a night for male companionship.

They meet their “hosts” in hundreds of clubs that have sprung up around Tokyo – the industry says only compliments are exchanged. The women pay for a man to lavish them with undivided attention.

“There’s nothing wrong with a woman paying to be entertained by a man,” one female client says. “It’s just another step in equality.”

It’s a dizzying reversal of traditional gender roles in a country long known for geishas pampering male clients with conversation, singing and dancing. Now a new breed of entertainer has cropped up — think of them as male geishas.

“I give women things that men normally don’t do, like complimenting their appearance,” says one host, 24-year-old Yunosuke, who only goes by his single host name. “I make women happy.”

And they make him happy: Yunosuke says he earned more than $200,000 last year, enough to let him visit a salon once a day to have his hair dyed and blow-dried.

“Women see us as one of their accessories,” he says. “They like to wear nice things, so I try to look prettier for them all the time.”

What drives the business boom is an increase in the earning power of Japanese women, according to Air Group, a company that owns a chain of “host” clubs.

“Japanese women are now working hard and making more money,” says Yuko Takeyama, a woman in her early 30s who manages Air Group. “They see this as a way to de-stress.”

Women love being treated well without the pressures that come with dating, she says.

Yunosuke’s customer from the nightclub agrees.

“This is a gift for myself,” she says. “It’s the same as spending money on a trip or buying something.” -PSFK

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I don’t know much about the Japanese industry on this but I thought it was a interesting outlook. Throughout the world almost everyone that visits strip clubs or even brothels enters the exchange with the understanding that it’s just flesh for money. “The Great Happiness Space,” is a documentary by director Jake Clennell. Clennel profound us into the world of Japanese host clubs in after hours Osaka.

Here, young men spend their nights providing physical but mostly emotional attention to women – or clients as they’re referred to. In the early evening men pace the streets and woo women into a club in hopes of scoring a wealthy girl in needs of lip service.

Upon first visit the woman selects a “host” from a book, and he becomes the person that she will always spend time with. Often multiple women spend time with the same host. Competition, more accurately financial competition, ensues for the host’s attention. A talented host can find themselves making thousands of dollars per night.

In the U.S. women have the upper hand in nightlife entertainment. They are handed free drinks and always command attention from men individually or in groups. Even strip clubs, once considered blighted trash accessible only from neon lit back alleys, have become more acceptable as entertainment venues for both men and women.

The opposite exists at ‘Cafe Rakkyo’ in Osaka. The men of this and other host clubs seduce women with sweet talk, understanding, champagne, and large stuffed teddy bears. These women pay out the nose for the attention and companionship of the hosts. And they know that the attention and companionship is an act, but conversely they admit that an emotional connection exists.

If the women suffer emotionally then the men suffer equally as much physically. Owner Issei explains that the trickiest part is keeping female clients “in the dream,” – that is the host must continue to sell the dream that they could be together and in love at some point. When reality hits, as it did for one client, the game is done.

My only fall out about this film is that it dragged a bit long and not really develop into any profound conclusions. Both sides are brutally honest in discussing their realities, to the point it makes everyone else in the world seem like an opportunist just like them. The truth is, this is what everyone else is doing in every relationship in their lives.

Telling people what they want to hear, going along with what happens at work because you need the paycheck and compromising your virtues to the point of denial. The gigolos convince themselves what they’re doing is justifiable. Strangely, the men seemed more effeminate than the women. Putting a lot of effort into their hair and jewelry, to the point of becoming freakish.

Another interesting analogy is that these gigolo boys seem to be “pimps” to the females in the movie. The females sell their bodies to make money to spend on the males. I certainly don’t believe Osaka as a whole is nearly that seedy. But strange subcultures exist and are fascinating.