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237 Reasons Why Women Have Sex

While figuring out what women want has stumped men for centuries, understanding how they think about sex may have just gotten easier. Cindy Meston and David Buss, psychologists at the University of Texas, interviewed over 1,000 women around the world for their book Why Women Have Sex and managed to come up with 237 reasons, ranging from the predictable — commitment — to the puzzling — curing a headache.

Spoiler alert: love may be further down on the list than one might think.

You co-authored a famous 2007 study “Why Humans Have Sex.” Why focus on women this time around?

We discovered that women’s sexual psychology turned out to be far more complex than we envisioned. It deserved an entire book-length treatment.

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My Fave Masturbation Tips – How 8 Girls Get Orgasmic!

 

Glass Sex Toys

I think the glass toys are the best. They are hard and transfer heat very well. You can even pop them in the fridge for a really good time! I bought a few from phallixglass.com and they are not only fantastic to look at….but they make me orgasm like I never have before….um…I’ll be back in a few!

 

 

G-Spot Heaven

My best advice for women would be to find your G-spot! Seriously, you HAVE to if you haven’t already! I masturbated for years trying to find it by myself, and one day I searched and found a very graphic explanation on a web site, tried it and OMG! BEST thing EVER!

Pulsating Showerhead

My preferred method is to use the pulsating showerhead in the morning. You can change the spray settings, slow or fast, and you can move it around to simulate a tongue. I’ve had some really good, earth-shaking orgasms this way. Try it—you’ll love it!

 

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2009 07 30 Girl Stuff
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Top 12 Sex Games You Must Never Play

Nothing invites conversation like sex “nevers.” Not only are there plenty to discuss, but these warnings are so juicy.

Take the title of my second book, “Sex with Your Ex & 69 Other Things You Should Never Do Again… Plus a Few That You Should.” People can’t get enough of the topic, with great debate always ensuing over whether exes should indeed “never” get back in the sack.

Sex “nevers” can rule your sex life, for better or for worse. While it’s said “some rules are meant to be broken,” some “nevers,” like the dozen that follow, tend to be words to the wise when it comes to your sex life. . .

 

 

 

1. Never have a “type” of orgasm — have your orgasm.

We’re always hearing about the types of climax possible in realizing your sexual satisfaction. I certainly write about them regularly. But instead of trying to have a breast, clitoral, G-spot or blended orgasm, forget the labels and have yours. Don’t worry about having a specific type, but focus on pampering your whole body, attending to any of its hot spots. This beckons your orgasm by not being so goal-oriented.

 

 

2. Never talk about past sexual relationships.

“What happens in Vegas stays in Vegas” needs to apply to all of the sexual trysts you’ve ever had anywhere. Don’t invite distress into your current romance by reminiscing about the good times or bad times you’ve had with other jerks, hotties, players, loves… No good can come of kissing and telling. Focus on the present and making it the most memorable.

 

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Mary Louise Parker Is Always Naked, Loves Outdoor Sex & Cherry Pie

 

Mary-Louise Parker wants to set the record straight: She loves being naked.

 

 

The star of Showtime’s Weeds (Season 5 premieres Monday, June 8 at 10 pm/ET) is speaking out in response to a recent interview with More magazine that gave the impression that she regretted doing a nude scene in the Season 4 finale episode. “They made it sound like I was like, ‘They made me take my clothes off and chained me to the bathtub,’” Parker says.

 

 

In the scene in question, Parker’s character, suburban single mom/drug queenpin Nancy Botwin, sits in the tub and reflects on the many obstacles she faces. The long takes do not shy away from Botwin’s nakedness — both physical and emotional.

The More article, which was excerpted online under the ironic headline of “I Like to Reveal Myself,” quotes the actress as saying that she didn’t think she needed to be naked, and that she fought with the director about it, which made her bitter.

 

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2009 06 29 Art of Seduction
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Crazy Wild ‘Gourmet Sex’ Is The Secret To Making Babies


Forget books, special diets and particular times of the month. Couples who want a baby should put their energy into having the wild, uninhibited sex of their early days together.

The better their quality of love-making, the greater their chances of conception, scientists say. What one fertility expert calls “gourmet sex” – where both partners take time to ensure the other has a satisfying experience – gives a couple the best chance of producing a baby.

“Couples who are trying to have a baby often mention that the sex becomes a bit of a chore, a bit mechanical and routine. That’s the wrong thing to be doing,” said Dr Allan Pacey, a senior lecturer in andrology at Sheffield University.

 

 

“The sex should be as wild and thrilling as it was when they first met, when they weren’t thinking about babies, to give them the maximum possible chance of having a baby,” added Pacey, secretary of the British Fertility Society.

 

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2009 03 20 Art of Seduction
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Skanky Is Best – How Teens Became Wannabe Porn Stars

 

Teenage girls are coming under pressure to imitate pornographic scenes that are in widespread circulation among youngsters, it has been revealed.

A high number of secondary school pupils are accessing explicit material, with nearly 90% of 13 to 17-year-olds telling pollsters they had seen porn. Most watched online or on material sent to mobile phones.

 

Interviews with teenagers revealed some girls were making recordings to “entertain boys” by copying explicit scenes from films. A 15-year-old girl told programme makers how her peers record themselves imitating pornographic scenes.

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