Nothing invites conversation like sex “nevers.” Not only are there plenty to discuss, but these warnings are so juicy.
Take the title of my second book, “Sex with Your Ex & 69 Other Things You Should Never Do Again… Plus a Few That You Should.” People can’t get enough of the topic, with great debate always ensuing over whether exes should indeed “never” get back in the sack.
Sex “nevers” can rule your sex life, for better or for worse. While it’s said “some rules are meant to be broken,” some “nevers,” like the dozen that follow, tend to be words to the wise when it comes to your sex life. . .
1. Never have a “type” of orgasm — have your orgasm.
We’re always hearing about the types of climax possible in realizing your sexual satisfaction. I certainly write about them regularly. But instead of trying to have a breast, clitoral, G-spot or blended orgasm, forget the labels and have yours. Don’t worry about having a specific type, but focus on pampering your whole body, attending to any of its hot spots. This beckons your orgasm by not being so goal-oriented.
2. Never talk about past sexual relationships.
“What happens in Vegas stays in Vegas” needs to apply to all of the sexual trysts you’ve ever had anywhere. Don’t invite distress into your current romance by reminiscing about the good times or bad times you’ve had with other jerks, hotties, players, loves… No good can come of kissing and telling. Focus on the present and making it the most memorable.
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