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237 Reasons Why Women Have Sex

While figuring out what women want has stumped men for centuries, understanding how they think about sex may have just gotten easier. Cindy Meston and David Buss, psychologists at the University of Texas, interviewed over 1,000 women around the world for their book Why Women Have Sex and managed to come up with 237 reasons, ranging from the predictable — commitment — to the puzzling — curing a headache.

Spoiler alert: love may be further down on the list than one might think.

You co-authored a famous 2007 study “Why Humans Have Sex.” Why focus on women this time around?

We discovered that women’s sexual psychology turned out to be far more complex than we envisioned. It deserved an entire book-length treatment.

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Top 12 Sex Games You Must Never Play

Nothing invites conversation like sex “nevers.” Not only are there plenty to discuss, but these warnings are so juicy.

Take the title of my second book, “Sex with Your Ex & 69 Other Things You Should Never Do Again… Plus a Few That You Should.” People can’t get enough of the topic, with great debate always ensuing over whether exes should indeed “never” get back in the sack.

Sex “nevers” can rule your sex life, for better or for worse. While it’s said “some rules are meant to be broken,” some “nevers,” like the dozen that follow, tend to be words to the wise when it comes to your sex life. . .

1. Never have a “type” of orgasm — have your orgasm.

We’re always hearing about the types of climax possible in realizing your sexual satisfaction. I certainly write about them regularly. But instead of trying to have a breast, clitoral, G-spot or blended orgasm, forget the labels and have yours. Don’t worry about having a specific type, but focus on pampering your whole body, attending to any of its hot spots. This beckons your orgasm by not being so goal-oriented.

2. Never talk about past sexual relationships.

“What happens in Vegas stays in Vegas” needs to apply to all of the sexual trysts you’ve ever had anywhere. Don’t invite distress into your current romance by reminiscing about the good times or bad times you’ve had with other jerks, hotties, players, loves… No good can come of kissing and telling. Focus on the present and making it the most memorable.

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Top 10 Sex Exercises For Wild Orgasmic Sex

Looking for a way to spice up your sex life? Exercise could be the answer. These exercises may not replicate typical sex moves, but each one will improve your sexual skills and performance. Working out will not only increase your sexual endurance, but it will also increase the amount of testosterone you produce, which will undoubtedly give rise to your desire and improve your performance.

Improve Thrust

The plank: Lie down on your stomach on a floor mat. Place your weight on your toes and forearms, and raise your body off the mat. Make sure your shoulders and back are perfectly parallel to the floor, and that your back isn’t arched. Hold this position for two minutes. Focus on keeping your stomach tight and your back straight; this will work your entire core.

Swiss ball crunches: Position the small of your back on a Swiss ball. Place your hands behind your head and slowly raise your upper body until you feel a strong tension in your abdominal muscles. Return to the starting position and repeat. For an added challenge, hold a five-pound weight over your head while completing the movement.

Leg raises: Lie down on your back and, keeping your legs straight, lift them until they are at a 90º angle with the floor. Carefully return your legs to the starting position (but don’t let them touch the floor) and repeat the lift. To prevent lower back pain, keep your lower back pressed flat against the mat.

The Benefits

A strong, controlled thrust can drastically improve how sex feels for both you and her. If you have weak abdominal and core muscles, you simply will not have the strength and power to maintain it, which will result in random and awkward movements. By performing these exercises at least twice a week, you will strengthen your core and thrusting abilities.

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Crazy Wild ‘Gourmet Sex’ Is The Secret To Making Babies

Forget books, special diets and particular times of the month. Couples who want a baby should put their energy into having the wild, uninhibited sex of their early days together.

The better their quality of love-making, the greater their chances of conception, scientists say. What one fertility expert calls “gourmet sex” – where both partners take time to ensure the other has a satisfying experience – gives a couple the best chance of producing a baby.

“Couples who are trying to have a baby often mention that the sex becomes a bit of a chore, a bit mechanical and routine. That’s the wrong thing to be doing,” said Dr Allan Pacey, a senior lecturer in andrology at Sheffield University.

“The sex should be as wild and thrilling as it was when they first met, when they weren’t thinking about babies, to give them the maximum possible chance of having a baby,” added Pacey, secretary of the British Fertility Society.

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3D Sex And Zen 2009 – Hong Kong Delivers World’s First 3D Erotica

Following hot on the heels of the amazing nude 3D sequence in the new My Bloody Valentine, a Chinese filmmaker has announced plans to make what he claims to be the world’s first 3D sex movie.

Hong Kong film makers are preparing to leave film goers goggle-eyed by releasing the world’s first pornographic movie in 3D, a news report said on Sunday.

Shooting on the Chinese-language film 3D Sex And Zen, budgeted at 4 million US dollars, is scheduled for April with producers promising some of the most realistic close-up sex scenes ever.

“Just imagine that you’ll be watching it as if you were sitting beside the bed,” Stephen Shiu Jnr told the Sunday Morning Post. Producer Stephen Shiu Jnr, chair of One Dollar Production, says his company will make “3D sex and Zen,” a sequel to the 1991 title “Sex and Zen” produced by his father Stephen Siu Yeuk-yen.

Lensing will begin in April on what its producer claims will be the world’s first erotic movie to be made in stereoscopic 3-D. “There will be many close-ups. It will look as if the actresses are only a few centimeters from the audience.”

Twenty five to 30 per cent of the movie, an update of one of Hong Kong’s best known erotic films Sex And Zen, will be sex scenes, Shiu told the newspaper. Continue reading ›

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17 Spice-up Tips For Juicy Sex

You can make love to the same person for the rest of your life in a million different ways, places and situations. Here are some foreplay tips for familiar lovers and some great ideas for just about anyone. Continue reading ›

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