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Surefire Ways To Stop Procrastinating

We’re all guilty of procrastination at some point, when we just can’t get the motivation to start the report, tackle the paper work, clear out the shed, make the phone calls, organise the filing cabinet, repaint the bedroom.


Not only that, ever notice how easy it is to get distracted when there’s a pile of work waiting for our attention: suddenly housework seems incredibly inviting; surfing the net, playing computer games, texting friends and of course eating take on a far greater priority than what really needs to get done.

Then of course there’s the guilt that you haven’t started yet; the task(s) to be done weighs very heavily and is ever present, reminding you just how hopeless you are. Not very nice.

One thing that makes it so hard to begin and so easy to drag your feet is that it’s common to feel overwhelmed by everything that needs to be done. The mountain of paperwork looks too huge to undertake so you put it off, the pile gets higher, you put it off some more…you get the picture. Looking at the whole of it and trying to figure out where to begin can make you feel exhausted, defeated and inadequate.

In January 2007 Boots the Chemist launched a new campaign called Change One Thing to help people keep their New Year’s Resolutions, but also in recognition that when you try to change everything all in one go, you are bound to fail. By changing one small thing there is a greater chance of success.

That’s how to break the grip of procrastination. Do one small thing. Rather than convincing yourself that you don’t have time to tackle the mountain of papers, set aside just a half hour to do one thing. Make one phone call, deal with one piece of paper, file one centimetre from the pile, write one page of the report.

Then stop.

Do something else. Then return and do the next one thing.

We can hear you already, “All well and good, but how do I get the motivation to even do that one small thing?”

There are a few things you can do. The first is to try to set aside your need to get it perfect (another reason it’s easy to procrastinate). Aim for ‘good enough’ at first.

You can set a ’soft’ deadline (“I’ll give myself till lunchtime to make that phone call.”), give yourself a reward (“I’ll make a nice cup of tea after I clear out two boxes of junk”), tell a friend and ask them to help. Sometimes – even at work – a seemingly impossible task will go much faster if you enlist someone else’s support.

What also seems to work is to talk through your ideas before starting a new task and there are a few reasons for this: first, it helps people clarify their thoughts, second, they don’t feel so alone, third, new ideas will inevitably emerge if more than one brain is focused on the problem at hand.

That’s true whether you’re painting your bedroom, clearing a closet or tackling that mountain of paperwork.

Finally, you can give yourself permission to procrastinate!

We don’t mean ‘forever’, but occasionally, you just might need to say it’s OK to put off till tomorrow what your guilty mind says you should be doing today.

Jo Ellen and Robin Chandler run Impact Factory who provide Professional Personal Development and Management Training, Presentation Skills, Communications Training, Leadership Development and Executive Coaching for Individuals.

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Yoga As Part Of An Anti-Aging Plan

While the topics under discussion are obviously yoga and having or making an anti-aging plan, it has become obvious over the last few years that anything done to improve personal health, increase flexibility, optimize the cardiovascular system, improve strength, increase the efficiency of organs and glands, and/or keep a person mentally alert and feeling glad to be alive has a place in any anti-aging plan.


Even though my contention is certainly going to be that yoga can produce all the effects mentioned, and maybe more, some people will simply not be attuned to donning a leotard, lighting candles, chanting to the tunes of other-worldly CD’s, and attempting to bend their bodies into positions they know they cannot attain anyway!

There will be people interested in the aging process who are genuinely willing to do a lot to create an effective anti-aging plan but who are just not interested in yoga. While I cannot address each possible consideration in such a short article which is dedicated to the specific topic of yoga, I can say that any exercise program or regular activity can produce many similar physical results.

Regularly challenging the mind, by puzzles, by learning new skills, or by placing oneself in social situations rather than withdrawing from them can certainly help maintain not only intellectual vigor but encourage physical activity and help defend the body against the effects of an unrestrained aging process. Attention to proper nutrition is valuable in this process as well.

In fact, there is no reason why anyone should not, or would not, use all of the above suggestions as part of an anti-aging plan whether they practice yoga or not! Yoga, while effective in this plan is not the only thing that someone should be doing, nor should they wait until they are “old” to begin the process. In fact, the sooner the better.

Starting a child on a path that includes health, fitness, intellectual stimulation and growth, and a love of life and the people around us is a means of insuring that the child will, as Mr. Spock says, “Live long and prosper.”

To speak in generalities about yoga as part of an anti-aging plan is a simple task. It produces physical fitness, encourages overall health of mind and body, helps keep the intellect stimulated, helps with the removal of toxins from the body, increases flexibility, helps improve the effectiveness of the immune system…the list goes on.

However, what can be said specifically about yoga and aging? After all, those comments are just words that I have placed upon a page.

Well, others have placed such words as well, and have been applauded by the medical community as well as the general public. For example, in their acclaimed book “YOU: The Owner’s Manual: An Insider’s Guide to the Body that Will Make You Healthier and Younger”, authors Michael F. Roizen, Mehmet Oz, who are concentrating on the physical side of life, applaud the daily practice of yoga as it relates both to life and to aging.

The authors are both MD’s. Dr. Roizen has provided health care to eight Nobel Peace Prize winners and more than 100 Fortune 500 CEOs and CFOs, and countless others. He has been in the Best Doctors in America since 1989. Dr. Oz is professor and vice-chairman of surgery at Columbia University. He is also medical director of the Integrated Medicine Center and director of the Heart Institute, New York Presbyterian/Columbia Medical Center.

Below is an excerpt from an interview conducted by WebMD.com. Dr. Roizen is speaking in response to a question about the daily practice of a short yoga program:

Physical activity has three major components:

* Any activity — such as walking.

* Strength building activity — such as lifting weights.

* Stamina activity — such as any activity that gets you to sweat in a cold room. Yoga constitutes two of those, that is, any activity and resistance activity because you are holding a body part in a position that gains strength.

All of these activities decrease aging of your arteries, decrease aging of your immune system, make your hormone system youthful and increase muscular skeletal strength, keeping your bones and muscles stronger.

By keeping your immune system younger, this little activity of five minutes a day helps prevent cancer and immune dysfunction, which prevents things like infections and many forms of arthritis.”

Additionally, the regular practice of yoga breathing throughout a full yoga workout can assist with improvement in cardiovascular health, while it is possibly a good idea to include some sort of cardio specific activity.

Regular practice of yoga creates a state similar to meditation which has been shown to improve mental acuity and reduce stress, a major player in aging. It obviously increases flexibility and improves balance. Regular practice of yoga can improve the functioning of internal organs and glands, and aids in digestion.

Also, despite the arguments against yoga earlier in this article, No special clothing is required, nor does any specific type of atmosphere need to be created. I travel a lot, and have often done my yoga routine in my underwear on a small strip of floor beside the bed while my wife watched the news on TV.

While setting the stage properly can assist with some of the concentration and attitude that makes for a more highly effective yoga session, it can be done anytime, anywhere, by anybody.

Nor is the ability to convert yourself into a pretzel required. The goal of any yoga practitioner is to do what he or she can to achieve the posture or movement.

The people shown in pictures are the ones who have gotten to that point generally after years of practice, and, as in any activity, some are just going to be better at it than others. Regularly doing what you CAN do to the best of your ability will return positive results.

My recommendation? It’s obvious. I believe that yoga can be an effective part of an anti-aging plan even if it is not the only part.

Donovan Baldwin is a Texas writer. He is a University of West Florida alumnus, a member of Mensa, and is retired from the U. S. Army. Learn more about yoga at http://yoga-4-the-health-of-it.com/ .

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Valentines Flowers Tips for Guys on the Go

It’s tough to be romantic when you’re on the go, working 12 hours a day, and juggling mulitple priorities. No wonder that on a romance scale of 1 to 10, only 19% of women rate their boyfriend, husband, or significant other a 7 or higher.

But, wait guys; there’s help. Even if you’re on the go, you can boost your romance quotient this Valentines — with flowers. Here’s how.

Don’t fret about choosing the right gift.

Flowers are still the most desired gift from an admirer and to express love. They’re personal, romantic, and according to researchers at Rutgers University, actually raise peoples spirits. In one study with 147 women of varying ages, those who received flowers smiled significantly more than those who received other gifts.

Fresh, colorful flowers evoke happy feelings. Other studies indicate that flowers actually improve emotional health and make people feel more connected. According to professor Jeannette Haviland-Jones, PhD, “The phrase ’stop and smell the roses’ may have a touch of genius in it.”


Order early.

Sending Valentines flowers is fast and easy! There are wonderful local florists in virtually every town, as well as dozens of leading online florists that deliver nationwide. And, ordering only takes a few minutes. So, don’t let your busy schedule get in the way.

Just pick up the phone or shop online. But, remember, Valentines is the “Superbowl” of flower holidays, with five to ten times the normal volume of deliveries. So, for the best selection, service, and pricing, it’s best to order early.

You’ll be glad you did.

Sending flowers to where she works?

That’s a great idea. Valentines flowers can brighten her whole week, she’ll be reminded of you every time she looks at them, and co-workers comments are a big plus, too. But, here’s a helpful tip from Romeos in the know.

With million of deliveries on Valentine’s Day, flowers can arrive almost anytime. So, play it safe. Ask for delivery the day before Valentine’s. That way your gift will be even more of a pleasant surprise and is sure to be enjoyed throughout all of Valentine’s Day.

In other words, you look like you were planning ahead and avoid any risk of your gift looking like a last-minute afterthought.

There’s more to Valentines than just red roses.

While beautiful long-stem red roses are still the most popular Valentine’s flower gift, there are lots of other options for every taste and budget. Many women prefer pretty pastel roses in pink, peach, yellow, or assorted spring colors.

They can make you stand out from the crowd. And, almost half of all Valentine’s bouquets aren’t roses at all; they’re lush mixed bouquets and spring flowers such as tulips. Choosing something unique can show you remember your sweetheart’s favorite color or flower. Your favorite florist will have a great selection and can quickly help you with the best choice.

Remember flowers after Valentine’s too.

What’s the best way for a man to make a lasting impression on a woman? Research shows that the answer to making a memorable impact is right under his nose — with flowers. Ninety-two percent of women can remember the last time they received flowers, and 89% agree that receiving flowers makes them feel special.

“If the way to a man’s heart is through his stomach, then the pathway to a woman’s heart is through her other senses,” says Rebecca Cole, of Discovery Channel’s Surprise By Design. “Flowers are a sensual gift that can express any emotion so simply – with just a little knowledge and a phone call to your florist.”

And, flowers given for no special reason may be the most special of all. So, light a fire with flowers this Valentine’s. And, keep it burning with a surprise gift of flowers anytime throughout the year.

By John E. Williams courtesy of 1-800-FLORALS. Award-winning same-day and next-day flowers delivery throughout the USA and Canada plus international flowers by wire. Since 1923.
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The Many Colours of Abundance


Abundance is very much like color. No two people see colors in the same way. One person may see blue while another sees purple. Two people looking at the same pumpkin will not see the exact same shade of orange. And no two people will experience the same feelings or have the same ideas of what abundance is.

The question is – what does it means for you? What you feel abundance is in your life is probably very different from what your neighbor feels abundance means and different again from the person who turned you down at your audition last week. It is a very individual perception and one that is important to consider.

The dictionary definition of abundance is simply having “quantity that is more than enough”. More than enough of what? Money? Friends? Family? Living space? Time? As actors and artists, we tend always to be struggling financially, or at least it seems that way.

We work extra jobs to make ends meet while we try to sell our talents at auditions and shows, trying to get “the big break” or at least a small one. When we are in the depths of financial hardship it is VERY difficult to see anything through the haze of despair that hangs in front of us.

The key is to step back from your life for a moment and look at it from a new perspective. Define for yourself what abundance is for you. What are you really trying to get out of life and, maybe even more importantly, what are you giving to life. Are you just going through the motions, hoping that “one of these days something will happen??” If so, you could be waiting for a very long time.

We are in control of our lives. No one can change our lives except us and no one else is responsible for our happiness. Once you have taken an objective look at your life, take some time to write down what abundance means to you. It may very well include money, and that is great. Money is a necessary commodity in our society and the stress that comes from not having enough is sometimes unbearable.

Your idea of abundance may also include time with your family and friends. It may include time just to be, to read a book with a warm cup of tea on a chilly Sunday afternoon in November. It may be taking an annual vacation to somewhere warm and sunny. Think about it and write it down. Write it in the present tense because you want to have the feeling of having abundance here and now.

The key is to determine where you want to be in five years or ten years. At Abundance Bound, (AbundanceBound.com – Financial Education and Planning for Actors and Artists”) we have our students do something we call a 3 year vision exercise.

We have them think about what their life will be, what they will be doing, where they will be living etc. Then they write it down, and work backwards from it to determine what needs to be done today to get there. This exercise is easy to do, and we would encourage you all to do it over the next week or so.

Decide what you want to have in your life and the type of lifestyle you want to lead. Have dreams and turn those dreams into goals. Once you have solid goals to strive for, you will be able to break the journey down into smaller, more manageable pieces; otherwise, you may feel overwhelmed and not get anything done.

Then do a little every day. Make a list of no more than six things you can do each day to get you closer to your goals. Have milestones along the way and congratulate yourself when you reach each of them.

Whatever abundance is for you, you can have it if you CHOOSE to have it. This concept applies to financial abundance just as well as it applies to abundance of anything else in your life. You may pray for guidance and help, but no matter what, you need to do the footwork.

Determine what you want money for in your life and how much you need. Is there anyone who can help you achieve your goals? Have a systematic plan in place to see that you reach your goal.

Whatever you want in life, you can have it. Anything is possible. You may need to make some short-term sacrifices to reach your goals. You will have to work hard. It will all be worth it. You have what it takes to have financial abundance in your life and any other kind of abundance you desire. You simply need to take the proper steps to get there.

Having graduated with a degree in Physics and Philosophy of Science from Kings College, London, Adam Martin moved into the film industry, and then started his company Abundnace Bound, Inc, providing financial education and planning to actors, artists and creative professionals. Adam and his wife, Miata, have developed extensive knowledge of financial issues, and are in constant coaching with Loral Langmeier, author of “The Millionaire Maker”

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Time Management And The Paradox Of "More"

“I wish I had more time.” Is there anyone who has never thought that? There is no question that the pace of modern life soaks up every minute of the day and still leaves many things undone. Yet if you delve a little further, you might find that it is not all society’s fault. The lifestyle you choose can increase this dearth of time.

You work more so you have more money. When you have more money, you can:

*Become involved in more activities. You book more social activities. You help in the community by joining volunteer groups and serving on committees, all of which adds more on your calendar. More people expect more time from you.
*Improve your lifestyle. If you have a larger house, it takes more time to take care of it or more contractors to hire who can help to maintain it. Adding another car or a boat is something else to keep up, with more appointments for maintenance. It takes more insurance to protect these things, so you have to add more work hours to be sure you can continue to afford them.
*Increase your personal possessions. When you have more space to fill, you buy more items to put into those spaces. To buy these pieces, you have to do more shopping. If they break, you have to find time to get them repaired. A lot of the purchases you make, especially electronic equipment, come with a learning curve, so you need time to study them.
The more spending you do, the less money you have in savings. You start to worry about whether you have enough of a reserve to cover emergencies and whether you will have enough money to retire. This leads to more stress over the years.
It is wonderful to live in a society that gives everyone the opportunity to earn money and have a good lifestyle, with all of its accompanying privileges and possessions. You work hard and you deserve to buy special things for your efforts. The challenge is to recognize the point where your enjoyment of your lifestyle and possessions starts to decrease as the pressures of added time requirements associated with them increase.
Sometimes the answer to finding more time lies in simplifying your life. Before you buy another item, be sure that the purchase fits one of these two categories:
*You need it. How much use will you actually get out of the new purchase? Do you already have something that works well and you are just replacing that with a newer model?
*You love it. Is it something that fills you with pleasure when you see it and that you will treasure it for many years?
The paradox of “more” is that possessing more things can actually decrease your level of happiness as you struggle to find time to do what you both need to and want to do. See if cutting back in some aspects of your life will give you more of that time you are seeking so that you can truly enjoy your life.
©2006, Key Organization Systems, Inc., All Rights Reserved

As a productivity trainer and organizing specialist, Denise Landers works with companies, governments, educational institutions, and individual business owners to improve their time management skills. Work and live smarter at www.KeyOrganization.com
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‘Man Flu’ Is No Myth

Males take more time off work than women with colds they think are flu, reports the Daily Mirror.

They also moan more, fork out more on remedies and 82 percent stay in bed until they feel better.The survey of 2 000 people found 64 percent of men thought they had flu and took a day off compared with 45 percent of women.

But according to Professor Ron Eccles of the Common Cold Centre, Cardiff University, it is women who get ill more.

He said: “This is because women have more contact with children – normally the main source of infection.”The poll for Nuts magazine found men take three days to recover and women half that time. November is said to be the worst month for ‘man flu’ – with one in six suffering.

Source: iol.ca.za

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